Choose to be Gentle


No matter what your experience was in the past, it ONLY EXISTS when you think about it at this very moment.


Your past does not make you who you are. 


If you are looking for who you are.

Stop looking.

You are here now.


At this very moment, you are the creator of your life.


“This moment is the only moment that ever matters.

You are creating who you are with the words you choose at this moment.


What kind of words are you choosing?


Do they feel gentle or hard?

A moment for you.

Decide right now that you matter.


You can choose to use this moment to create who you are by choosing different thoughts and shift everything in your life.


You are that powerful.

Are you choosing to be gentle or hard on yourself?

Choose now.

Here's a quick self-love practice you can start with.


Vanessa Leung is a Certified Life and Wellness Coach, Speaker, Blogger, Registered Holistic Nutritionist, Reiki energy practitioner and the founder of 80/20 Living & Co.

As a self-healer of over 30 years of doubt, guilt and fear, Vanessa is a living example of what the power of the mind can do.  Through mind training and practicing self-compassion, she went from living a life feeling lonely, insignificant and depressed to a life of joy, freedom and abundance.

Vanessa teaches simple and practical tools to help high achieving entrepreneurs to succeed with ease and get sh*t done without the mind games. She helps her clients get right down to the root cause of all their Fears. Her clients are able to own their fears, make decisions with confidence, trust in themselves to follow-through and create abundance in their life and business. Fearless and powerful.

Are you ready to live in abundance?

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