YES, I was once dumped on Valentine’s Day!
Naturally from that day forward I had swore off Valentine’s Day. It had meant nothing to me except the memory of feeling hurt, abandonment and feeling sorry for myself.
Even when I was with someone new I would make a point not to celebrate this day.
Maybe in someway I felt that I didn’t deserve the love from someone else because clearly there must be something wrong with me… I was dumped on Valentine’s Day!
After quite a few years, I started noticing… instead of feeling sorry for myself that I wasn’t in a loving relationship, I started noticing all the happy couples around me.
They were amazing examples of the type of relationship that I wanted for myself.
I started to shift my thinking and started to feel the love that those couples were expressing to each other.
I used my superpower, the ability to visualize and I started to focus on the vision that one day I too would be in a loving relationship just like them. Because heck I deserved it!
I then changed my meaning of Valentine’s Day. It became a day for me.
I knew deep down inside that I didn’t need someone else to love me in order feel love.
This day became a day to love myself and to celebrate being by myself.
The beauty that came out of all of this was my SELF-LOVE CHECKLIST.
I have this checklist posted up on my bathroom mirror and it has really helped me check in with myself daily.
It’s completely changed my life even if I don’t read it every day! I see it and I know my subconscious mind can pick that up.
I’ve found that it’s made me a happier person and more loving to be around.
WHEN YOU ARE AT YOUR BEST, YOU CAN GIVE YOUR BEST.
I would like to offer this gift and share the love with you. I have put together a beautiful template and instructions on how you can build your own self-love checklist!
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